I honestly don’t know where the days are going at the moment. I wake up and before I know it, it’s time for bed and I don’t really feel like I’ve done anything. I hate this feeling. The feeling of standing still; being stagnant. I love feeling like I am working towards something whether that is in my personal life or business.
That’s why I have recently signed up to do a 6 month business program with Lenka Lutonska to learn how to move my business forwards. I am really enjoying so far and learning lots about myself and how I am showing up in my business.
I have realised that I have quite a bit of work to do around my money mindset!
Yesterday, I went to Lenka’s live event in London. First all of, I am so proud of myself for getting there, going on 2 tubes and using Google maps to find the hotel (on my own!). I realised though that I hadn’t really told anyone what the day was called and those that I had told, I felt embarrassed. The training day was called, ‘Unlock your divine millionaire code’. There, I’ve said it!
I feel (or felt, before yesterday!) embarrassed to say that I want to grow my business and make 6 figures. I’ve had to take a long hard look at why this is and why I want this. Is it because I’m greedy? Is it because I am materialistic? Is it is because I’m doing it to prove my worth? Why can’t I just be happy with the business ticking over?
A tiny portion of it may still be to do with proving to myself that I can do it but my number one value is to help people to change their lives, to become happier and healthier.
I want to make 6 figures because…
I want to have the means to help even more people and have an even bigger impact.
I want to leave the planet a slightly better place than when I arrived.
I want to provide for my boys and show them the world.
I want to help set them up for a future where they don’t have to struggle.
I want to take my mum to Italy.
I want to pay for my friends when we go out for a meal.
I want to earn enough so that my husband has options to explore his dreams.
I want to be able to pay for a spa/flowers when my family and friends are feeling down.
I want to pay for my brother-in-law to come to Disney with us.
I want to sponsor other good causes and help to make a difference.
The more money I have, the more people I can give back to. I want to squeeze the juice out of life and help others to do the same.
It's interesting how a few comments from people can make you doubt yourself though. I told one of my friend’s last year about my financial goals for the business after I’d done Tony Robbins’ Business Mastery event and they innocently said, ‘I didn’t realise you were all about the money’. What they didn’t realise is that I felt shame because of this comment and this reinforced my belief that I should stay small and be happy with my lot. My doubts and fears were triggered in an instance. Who did I think I was? Like I could do that anyway! What I didn’t realise then was that this was probably a reflection of their fears. We like people to stay in boxes. When they change, we can feel unsettled and fearful that we might be rejected.
The truth is, you can be grateful for what you have and still strive for more. There is plenty to go around for us all! I honestly believe that with the right support and a team around me, my goals are possible. The only thing that would hold me back is what other people would think.
Your thoughts and beliefs impact everything. While I continue to worry about what people think, I won’t take the action needed and therefore all of those people that I could have helped (clients/family/friends) will miss out or continue to suffer.
Tell me…
Do you feel like you were destined for more?
I wonder what is holding you back?
What would you do if you weren’t afraid?
This is why I love my job! I love to help others to break through unhelpful beliefs from the past, cut through the bullshit stories that they are telling themselves so they can become who they were meant to me and create a life of happiness.
I need to do continue to do this myself! I know that you can’t take clients to places you’ve been yourself. So, here I am, owning it and stepping into my power! I know I still have some work to do around this which I’m excited to tackle but this is the first step in me shifting this shame.
There is nothing wrong with wanting more. There is nothing wrong with becoming more. You can be whoever you want to be. Take up more space. Show the world who you are.
For those of you that have read my book and been on my workshops…
REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE!
You are ……(FIRST NAME)……………..F**KING………(SURNAME)………….!
I wonder what your visions are? What would you like to do, be, have? I challenge you to write a list. What would be on it? Go crazy! What would your ideal life have it in? How would you feel? Pick 3 things that you would like to achieve in the next year and break them down. Work backwards. What steps would you need to take to make them happen?
Anything is possible.
If you can imagine it then you can have it. It’s within your consciousness and your energy. It’s already yours. Your vision is showing you who you really are and what is possible. All we need to do is accept this is who we already are and take small steps becoming it.
Any journey starts with one small step.
If you are ready to let go of the past and create a magical future and you would like help with putting this into action, then please contact me to book your free Exploratory Call.
You are freakin’ amazing!!!
Have a magical week, you beautiful people 🌈💜🎉
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